I was lucky enough to grow up next door to my Uncle. With 3 nephews and 2 neices nextdoor, by proxy his home was ours and, looking back, he was quite patient with the unruly and feral bunch we were.
Later, most of us would work for the construction company Bob and Bruce ran, Hess Builders. Some made careers of it, but all of us learned from it. Lessons in carpentry, but also life: how to work; how to solve problems; how to ask questions; how to argue and then get over it; and, most crucial, how to work together.
It's impossible to sum up a life so well lived, or really put into words all that he was.
I can only hope to live half as well.